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When Elizabeth was young, about three or four years old, I had made a basket of activities for her. The basket contained many items that we used to help her fine motor work, helping her cross mid-line, count and identify colors.

There was a piggy bank for her to put pennies in, there was THERAPUTTY with beads in it to encourage her finger strength, there were these big plastic nuts and bolts to encourage motor planning and wrist strength among many other things. I would change them around as I was guided by the OT because as we all know, their sensory diets change as do their motor and sensory needs.

I think what made something better than another for Elizabeth was when she liked the therapy tool or toy we were working with. And this was way back in the late 90’s, so the options for special needs children were not as great as they are today. (I know, I just made myself sound old!)

But my point is, there are so many great therapy tools available that would really be fun and enjoyable for your special needs child to play with or for you assist in playing. Items that can help your child work on strengthening fine motor, oral motor and other gross  motor skills, but are fun. In my experience, this is the ticket to success!

So the sensory toy I have to talk about today looks innocent enough in its prettiness. But look at it again and I can see the great possibilities it can serve for a therapy tool.

It is called Build-A –Bouquet. And right away it looks inviting because it looks easy to play with and trust me, this can be the biggest thing because with sensory issues, loud or overwhelming toys can become an instant no.

So what I see is this eco-friendly toy has 44 pieces. They consist of the parts of flowers: the leaves, the petals and the inner part of a flower. The flowers, lilies, petunias and daisies, come in yellow, pink or purple colors. And instead of a vase, there is a flower bed that has a winding shape to it.

No noises, batteries, switches or really small parts!

Right away I know how great this would be for color identification. Even if it is only to separate them into piles. And then progressing to making a line of purple ones, then yellow and then pink.

The flowers have a nice solid feel to them, so that they will be easy to maneuver. They are very slightly textured which again, helps with holding them.

Putting the flower stems into the flower bed will work on eye-hand coordination as well as fine motor control. Then comes the fun of picking the colors of flower and inner part of the flower to use. This is the part that will build creativity but also keep working on fine motor skills. You can even put the flowers on one side of the table and the flower bed on the other to encourage your child to cross mid-line. The pretty flowers that are the result are a fantastic motivator! 

The thing I loved is that putting the flower bed together will encourage them to use both hands at the same time and working on wrist strength and motor planning to get the pieces to fit. But again the pieces are nice and big so that encourages success.

Being a lover of the pastel colors of these flowers, I know Elizabeth would have loved this to be added to her “work” basket. And this can hold true to any sensory bin that you might have.

So if you have a thought that this is something you might like use for your child, please visit our site to read more.

And again, for my planet saving, recycle everything you can daughter, this toy is made from recycled milk  jugs!

 

I wish everyone a peaceful week!

Michele Gianetti

Author of “I Believe In You: A Mother and Daughter’s Special Journey” and “Emily’s Sister”

Raise your hand if you cannot believe that the school year is half way over! I am sure that a lot of you have those hands up. And I include myself in that number.

My son, Michael was telling me about his grades, how he was finishing up his one paper so that he could get back some points for doing the corrections. He said he wanted to make sure to get all this done by Friday.

So I ask him why Friday? To which he looked at me and said that it was the end of the second grading period. Wow, I thought, no way. Then I thought why is this something I did not notice? To that question I have no real answer. Other than I was just participating in our day to day life so much so that I did not actually notice how many of these days had passed.

So with that startling information in mind, I started thinking about what that marker of the second half of the school year means to me, Elizabeth and life with special needs child.

It is usually at this half-way marker, that I learned to do a couple of things.

To really help evaluate how the year is going, here are 7 helpful tips: 

  1. Look at recent school papers, see if they are showing the advancements that you want to see.
  2. Look at the therapy goals for your child, how do you think they are being met? Is there anything you want to talk to the school therapist about?
  3. Read ( or if you are me, reread) the IEP goals- see if the progress towards those goals is happening.
  4. Talk to your child, if they are able, ask them how they feel about school, is there anything going on that bothers them? Worries them?
  5. Think about how your child comes home from school, are they calm? Nervous? Or stressed?
  6. Is there anything going on at home that might be affecting your child at school? Maybe consider sharing this with the teacher.
  7. Is there any information from private therapist that should/can be shared with the school? Don’t forget, sensory diets need adjusting and sensory needs change, so sharing is so important.

I know for me, this time of the year was one when some teachers and therapies at the school, if things are going well, get on a sort of autopilot. And truthfully, it does just kind of happen. I mean the days become repetitive and time passes. But this kind of check in, in my opinion, allows for a fresh look and update at what may have become rote. (By my own admittance, I lost track of time this year for Michael. )

So please know, it is not a finger pointing fault thing, but a let’s evaluate this year and adjust kind of thing.

And the perfect place to have this conversation just happens to be right around the corner and its name is conference night.

Conference night for us comes around the second week in February. I can remember the first year Elizabeth was in school and we showed up for conference night having done none of the above things, and actually not bringing anything into the classroom. No papers, notes or IEP, no notes from private therapists. Pretty much just us. And it did not go well. We were ill prepared for the conversation that happened and the concerns the teachers shared. So I offer this information out to help others skip that kind of night.

I know many of us check in frequently with our schools and teachers and I know many of great ways to communicate daily, which is so helpful so maybe think of this time like you would the doctor. Just like you go to the doctors for a check-up, you can use this marker of time to do a check-up for your special needs child.

I wish everyone a peaceful week.

Michele Gianetti

Author of “I Believe In You: A Mother and Daughter’s Special Journey” and “Emily’s Sister”